How to handle your child’s TV time

Now a days this is the most prompt question for each and every parents. children are very much fond of TV. many time they forget rest of the things because of the TV show. You have all tried by hardly to make them understand stop over watching of TV then to they are not listening to you.. you have used all your techniques to make them realized the fact but ultimate outcome is zero. If you have realized that you cannot stop your children from watching TV, here are tips that at least help you to get the best out of the idiot box.

• Select the program your children watch 
  Choose the programs your children should watch, of course keeping in mind their likes and dislikes. As far as possible, avoid the overdose of sex and violence that is integral to many TV programmes. It adversely affects impressionable minds. You should be able to clearly underline the programmes not meant for children, at least in the initial years. This task is not easy, but one can make a dent when the children are in their formative years. Watch channels like Discovery, Animal planet, History, National Geography...etc.. while watching this you can see that kids are properly involve in this. they are watching it  with full of concentration.  

• Watch with them 
  Let TV time be family time. While answering your children’s queries about television, try to understand their thinking processes.  Not only will that establish your rapport with your children, but it will mean quality time that will be cherished throughout life. If they asking you question regarding the same show, that time don't get irritated or don't neglect their curies. try to help them to get their curies short out. you may can build up very much strong relationship n bonding with your kids. watch even cartoon with them and just laugh and make them also laugh. 

• Arouse their curiosity
  
  Ask them questions related to their favorite programmes. TV can be a learning experience if TV watching is made interactive by nature. For instance, while watching a science quiz/mythological serial/chat show, ask them to relate to their classroom experiences. 

• TV time should never be overlapped with meals
  
  Doctors often warn against watching television during dinnertime. Watching TV while eating can cause severe and chronic indigestion. It can also lead to obesity as children sit glued to the TV set. Moreover, they do not enjoy food while concentrating on their favorite programmes. They have to be taught to ration their TV viewing. Otherwise, they will never enjoy other forms of entertainment like reading, outdoor games and sports, swimming and various performing arts. Children have to be consciously introduced to these avenues. 

• Discourage late night television viewing 
  Children, especially the school-going kind, should never be allowed to watch TV after ten’ o’clock in the night. Not only does it affect the eyesight, but it also disturbs the morning routine on the next day. Inculcate the early-to-bed early to rise habit in your little ones. And for this you strictly follows the same.

What is ...........????

What Is Forgiveness?
It Is The Wonderful Smell That A Flower Gives,
When Its Being Crushed........That is Forgiveness!

What is Success?
When Your “SIGNATURE” Changes to “AUTOGRAPH”.......That is SUCCESS!

What is Hope?
Every Night We Go To Bed, We Have No Assurance To Get Up Alive Next Morning
But Still You Have Plans For The Coming Day That’s Hope!

What is Richness?
NOT Earning, Spending or Saving More, Richness is, When You Need "NO MORE"

What is Faith?
Taking The First Step Even When You Don't See The Whole Staircase.

Thought of the Day................. 28/03/2016

There are three main Reasons why People change

1. They have learned a lot

2.  They have suffered enough.

3. They got tired of  always same thing.

Thought of the day............ 26/03/21016

"IT dose not matter how much you are spending time on Earth, how much money can you gathered or how much attention you received. It is the amount of positive vibration you have radiated in the life that matter."

Joyful Parenting

          Suppose you were given a seed. All the time you think this seed is to become a rose bush. As it begins to grow, you think, “These leaves are strange – they are bigger than they should be.” In your confusion and frustration, you begin to prune the tree and cut the large leaves smaller and smaller. Every day the bush seems to be getting bigger than you can control and the stems are growing thicker than they should, and every day you are thinking, “This is not what you are supposed to be.”  Finally, one day, a huge flower appears on your rose bush. It is large and white and the smell is so sweet. In this moment, you realize that what you thought was a rose bush was really a magnificent magnolia tree all along. You missed out on the essence of the plant, by imagining it was something else.

Similarly, when we raise our children, we may not see them for who they are. Instead, we want to mold them into just what we think they should be. The problem is, we limit their growth to the image of ourselves.  

       “If you think the way you are is everything, naturally your aspiration will be that they should become like you,” but what the next generation will be is something that you cannot even imagine. Instead of trying to mold our children, we should put our energies into creating a joyful atmosphere where a child can be more than what we are.

       If you are joyful, your children should be more joyful than you. If you are balanced, your children should be more balanced than you. Let us spend time creating the atmosphere that will allow our children to be more than us, not just have more than us.

Thought of the Day............. 25/ 03/ 2016

Sometimes smallest step towards right direction ends up being the biggest step of your life....

when we do any kind of work mostly we think how much that work help me for my betterment and due to this approach we many reject many times an opportunity only because its intensity his very small. we feels that, this is not going to help me any more. But always remember some times what we can see is not enough to judge that situation letter on we realized that we missed the golden chance just because we feel it not our type of thing or just because the feeling of fear that say , "I can't able to do this"...

Just go ahead do the thing you will learn and achieve  experience....   

Probably this Conversation between Krishna & Today's Arjun is the need of the Society.....

Arjuna : I can't find free time . Life has become hectic.

Krishna : Activity gets you busy. But productivity gets you free.

Arjuna : Why has life become complicated now?

Krishna : STOP analyzing life.... It makes it complicated. just live it.

Arjuna : Why are we then constantly Unhappy??

Krishna : Worrying has become your habit. That's why you are not happy.

Arjuna : Why do good people always suffer?

Krishna : Diamond can not be polished without friction. Gold can not purified without fire. Good people go through trials, but don't suffer. With that experience their life becomes better, not bitter.

Arjuna : You mean to say such experience is useful?

Krishna : Yes. In every term., Experience is a hard teacher. she gives the test First and lessons later.

Arjuna : Because of so many problems, we don't know where we are heading..............

Krishna : If you look outside you will not know where you are heading. Look inside. Eyes provide sight. Heart provides the way.

Arjuna ; Dose failure hurts more than moving in the right direction?

Krishna : Success is a measure as decided by others. Satisfaction is a measure a measure as decided by you.

Arjuna : In tough times, how do you stay motivated?

Krishna : Always look at how far you have come rather than how far you have to go. always count your blessing, not what you are missing.

Arjuna : What surprises you about people?

Krishna : When they suffer they ask, "Why me?" When they prosper, they never ask "why me?"

Arjuna : How can I get the best out of life?

Krishna : Face your fast without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear.

Arjuna : One last question. Sometimes I feel my prayers are not answered.

Krishna : There are no unanswered prayers. Keep the faith and drop the fear. Life is a Mystery to resolve, not a problem to resolve. thrust me. Life is wonderful if you know how to live.

Stay Happy Always..................................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL

Thought of the Day.......24/03/2016

Be your Self Always. Because your unique creation of God. Just remember that your own finger prints doesn't match with anyone. this is the symbolic representation of uniqueness. Do your work with that uniqueness and create a miracle. Discoveries are nothing special its the things which have been seen by people with their own but different attitude than others. Think always your the one Hero.......  

Happy holi

Happy Holi,

May this Holi colour up your life with shades of LEARNING, WISDOM And GROWTH for years to come. Have A Happy, Safe & DRY HOLI. 

From INSIGHT ......................... Discover More About You & Family... 

Neha Satam-Rane

Thought of the day... 23/03/2016

Life is a play that dose not allow testing. So sing, cry, dance, laugh and live intensely, before the curtain closes and the piece ends with no applause..... 

So everyone start enjoying you play. put all your efforts to do your best performance. may your role is small or many many great people working with you don't be nervous just perform. because remember there always and award for best supporting actor also. don't be always restrict your self for searching of lead role. just enjoy your work. be happy.... keep smiling.    

Thought of the Day...22/03/2016

Growth means change and change involves risk; stepping from the know to the unknown.

whenever something grows we say its a living things. It means that growth is symbol of aliveness. in growth every thing is unknown we never know where we are going to reach. where the road is getting stop. but we have to walk because that will definitely going to land up at fabulous place. yes its a 100% risk but don't afraid of it. its necessary part of your life. may you fall or you get hurt but don't stop. Just remember that childhood time's mom's word," Beta If you fall don't cry because then only you will grow stronger" so enjoy the change and grow your self. 

Though of the day.............21/03/2016

Every job is a self -portrait of the person who dose it. Autograph your work with excellence.

 Any work that you will do its become your job. Every job has its own identity. every player that play cricket is called cricketer, but only Sachin Tendulkar is consider as "God of Cricket". He has reach to this designation due to his excellence and hard work and approach by which he played cricket. There is so many founder in all different organizations, but just look at the work that Mr. Dirubhai Ambani dose or Mr.K.Narayan Murti dose for Reliance and Infosys respectively. 

Always remember Job profile remain same but the way You present it shows the different because it always has your special n unique touch.

Any unique and precious creation is always preserved with Autograph of creator. so be a creator.  

Life Mantra........

Life is fabulous if you work on two things....

1. Don't act without thinking.

2. Don't keep thinking without acting. 

Its really very true that to follow this mantra every time in your life. because major problems are of life are due to this to factors only.
 Whenever you wanted to try something in your life think from all the aspects, make your plan, be ready with your does and don't and carry your work. efforts should the best what you can put. 
Just don't waste more time in thinking without acting. after your act if you are going somewhere wrong stop; think, recognized and correct and then only move ahead. 
Nobody will stop you. then sky is limit for you

Why do we read Geeta even if can't understand or remember??????

Story

an old Farmer lived on a farm in the mountains with his young grandson.

Each morning Grandpa was up early sitting at the kitchen table reading his Bhagawat Geeta. His grandson wanted to be just like him and tried to imitate him in every way he could.

On day the grandson asked, " Grandpa! I try to read the Bhagawat Geeta just like you but I don't understand it, and what I do Understand I forget as soon as I close the book. what good dose reading the Bhagawatgeeta Geeta do?

The grandfather quietly turned from putting coal in the stove and replied, "Take this coal basket down to the river and bring me back a basket of water."

The boy did as he was told, but all the water leaked out before he got the house. The grandfather laughed and said. " You'll have to move a little faster next time," and sent him back to the river with the basket to try again. This time the boy ran faster, but again the basket was empty before he returned home. Out of breath, he told his grandfather that it was impossible to carry water in a basket, and he went to get a bucket instead.

The old man said, "I don't want a bucket of water: I want a basket of water. You're just not trying hard enough," and he went out the door to watch the boy try again.

At this point, the boy knew it was impossible, but he wanted to show his grandfather that even if he ran as fast as he could, the water would leak out before he got back to the house.

The boy again dipped the basket into river and ran hard, but when he reached his grandfather the basket was again empty. Out of breath, he said," See Grandpa ,It's useless!"

"So you think it is useless?" The old man said," Look at the basket."

the boy looked at the basket and for the first time realized that the basket was different. It had been transformed from a dirty old coal basket and was now clean, inside and out.

"Son, that's what happens when you read the Bhgawat Geeta. You might not understand or remember everything, but when you read it, you will be changed, inside and out. That is work of Krishna in our lives."

Thought of the Day.......... 20/3/2016

The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, Not on fighting the old, but on the building new.

Change is part of life. it is needed for existence. How you handle the change that shows your approach towards life. Many people accept change very nervously few of them take it with full of enthusiasm. many of them feel uncomfortable with change but those who r interested to do some thing different in there life they accept change as an opportunity.

Think if in the office your main boss change, & he is very disciplined. The people those who not accept change they will continuously talk how their old boss was good n how he is giving them a liberty to delayed the work and so on. But those who like that change they started doing their work more efficiently than the previously how they are doing. 

when any one accept the change positively than only he will do miracle in his life.....

so be ready for change. its giving you new opportunity. Start building new Ideas and your new Ways...      

Not to give up........

You all may already watched this video before. u feel its a very inspirational story about Not to give up in any situation.. but this video actually also have another aspect and that aspect is non other than Good Parenting..

In the video we can see when he felt and want to continue his race that time by braking all the barriers his dad comes and give him support. this is very good thought that whenever your child is facing failure don't make him feel alone, support him and motivate to try the same again.

Dear Parents its our responsibility to mold our child by finding his weakness and qualities..  

It dosen't mean that we have to support any wrong step of the child. But whenever you know that your child has put so much affords to reach at particular level and there if he facing failure, help him to faced that.   

Thought of the day..... 19/03/2016

The Dead sea is the dead sea, because it continuously receives and never gives.
 

In a life we receives so many things from surrounding. small things that we receives what we give them into returns? think we receives very essential sunlight in free of cost every day in our life, we never have to pay for it but what we are giving to sun as reward ? Same way in life so many people are doing many things for us we are always a receive but any time we think to become Donner ? 

Your Mom or Your wife doing so hard for you since morning.. They were always busy to fulfill  your requirement. but what we do for them after receiving so much for them??? nothing to do much just give tight huge or beautiful smile and say that you Love them..... and become Donner..

When you received Knowledge also its increased only when you share it to any one. there for it is must to be come donner other wise your life is also like Dead sea..

Choice is yours what you wanna become... Dead sea or ...........??????