Jealousy Vs Possessiveness

Jealousy vs Possessiveness - which is more destructive?

Jealousy and Possessiveness are two of the most amazing psychological forces that human beings possess. They can be extremely motivating and at the same time extremely destructive to the mind. They both originate from love.

Jealousy is the feeling that you have when you see in others what you do not have or have in less quantity.  "Jealousy " a sign of Insecurity, Fear and Weakness.

Jealous can mean a lot of things. You can be jealous of another success, position, professions, girlfriends, wives etc....

I'm possessive.

This simply means I'm protective, loyal, and committed to what I consider to be mine.  

Possessiveness is your feeling/desire to keep with you what you already possess. 

In jealousy you like to possess what others have while in possessiveness you want to share with others what you have. 

Possessiveness comes from the love for a "beloved". This can be a friend, family member or lover.

In the initial stages when you are developing love it gives the beloved a subconscious message - "you are mine".

But once love reaches a "comfort zone", the same possessiveness gives rise to "suffocation". It can make the beloved run away from the relationship.

Jealousy on the other hand is related to self-love.
When you are low on self-love - there is high comparison with others.
This gives rise to a lot of restlessness that comes out as jealousy.

When you are high on self-love - you stop comparing. You are comfortable with your own self. The restlessness decreases and so does the jealousy.

Some times Jealousy and possessiveness go hand in hand.

Insight Funda..........

Don't ever let your Possessiveness, Insecurities, and jealousy dominate you, for it could be the reason to lose the person whom you love the most.

Jealousy & Possessiveness Kill Love.

Possessiveness and Jealousy are destructive when love decreases.

Give as much love as u want to received 

Insight Counseling Center

Neha Satam Rane (Counsellor, Trainer & Motivational Speaker)
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